What I know for sure is ..
that life is totally unpredictable and that life can change directions in a nanosecond. I felt that I was in the minority for this one before Covid. When I lost my parents, my world came out from under my feet in an instant. You think life will never be the same and it isn’t but life goes on and you somehow pick yourself up, grieve , mourn and begin a new normal.
With Covid, once again life took an unpredictable turn not just for me and my family but for the entire world!! Something that I could have never ever seen coming in my lifetime and yep a big inconvenience for everyone. Travel plans were cancelled, weddings were postponed, life changed in a nanosecond and we all had to learn how to adjust quickly to the new normal.
What I know for sure is that plans can change and that’s ok. I am a planner and love to plan and believe half the fun is in the planning . As someone who used to not adjust well to last minute changes, I am now very well adjusted. Plans can be rescheduled, plans can change, plans can be broken, plans can be re planned and that’s perfectly ok.
Right now our priorities have shifted immensely. Plans do not matter right now, being healthy, being with loved ones is number one.Keeping in touch with friends and family and checking in is key. It is amazing how well we adjust when we have to and how trivial something that once seemed so important has become.